When?

When I saw how happy it made my madam after she had shut the lock for the first time.

 

For us, it was the morning after our original CB version split open during the night while I was in it. We are not in any sort of D/s or FLR, but our initial chastity forays were an extension of my enjoyment of bondage.

But when I showed the broken CB to my wife her first response was “it seems like there must be better made cages out there we can get”. THAT is when I knew we were onto something we both enjoyed.

We are still exploring exactly where it fits with us, but we are very much enjoying it so far.

 

Ditto.

 

When i wanted out, and was denied release. my Queen told me "this is not a game". "Chastity doesn't begin when the lock is closed, it begins when you want out".

 

When my wife realised tat oral orgasm is more intensed than dick penetration.. n shes done with trying to conceive.. theres litle use of my ejaculation anymore..tat was 6 years ago

 

Around 2 weeks into experimenting with it, my wife and I went on a date. First time wearing the caged out of the house. While at dinner my wife looked across the table at me and told me she was really enjoying this and not just appeasing me. To hear her say that she wanted this was all I needed. At that point in time it became more of a lifestyle.

That was the first date night in our 20-year relationship that ended with her getting off but not me. I've been mostly 24/7 since.