1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

Wife is full of surprises

Discussion in 'The Tower' started by rschulz00, Jun 1, 2012.

  1. A couple of days ago I posted "Frustrated" because of my own inability to stop trying to top from the bottom more than anything.

    Now ...

    Because of hygiene issues and her general lack of interest in doing anything with the chastity device, we ordered a second tube so we could switch them out every four - five days (the intention is that I will switch them under her supervision).

    The new tube is a CB6000s - the smaller version of the CB6000 which I currently own.

    We switched them out last night and I was shocked at the difference. With the CB6000s tube, I'm finding it much more frustrating as there is absolutely zero room to grow or get even partially erect. It's even more emasculating than the CB6000 because of this.

    When my wife and I discussed these findings at lunch, she said "good, maybe that will help you stay in line better."
    kkeeiitthh likes this.
  2. In my experience, shorter is definitely better (and better for encouraging feminizing too, which is important to me!). Once you get used to the smaller tube you may want to consider an even smaller custom one, say about 1.5" or so! It took me some time to get used to the smaller device, but once I did my peenie was trained to automatically stop when it reached the end (which is where it spent most of its time), and I didn't have a nocturnal erection problem. Good luck on that and on eliminating the topping from the bottom problem too!

  3. It's only 3/4 of an inch difference between the CB6000 and the CB6000s but I can also verify the huge difference in the way it makes you feel because now there is NO hope of any kind of erection at all any more and just looking down and seeing your balls are now bigger than your clit! :)

  4. I keep my husband's pee-pee nice and small. When he sees it constantly that way, it is an important reenforcement of his status.
  5. Mistress B

    Mistress B Mistress B
    Staff Member Moderator

    Feb 29, 2012
    Likes Received:
    Trophy Points:
    Business Owner
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    United Kingdom
    Small is definitely better, what's the point in caging if a partial erection is possible. I can only tell when jemima is aroused by the bulge above her cage, as the little cage prevents any growth.
    sirius likes this.
  6. Agreed. Two inches is plenty.
    sirius likes this.
  7. Very true. Especially for sissies. Any more is allowing far too much freedom.
  8. And the smaller tube helps get rid of night pain as well, I don't have a cb anymore but my 7 cm tube when it definitely stops my erections dead and being narrower as.well there is no hope!

  9. Are you serious?
    Only 3/4 inch? Wow, I received a 6000s tube by accident and had to send it back but I thought it was tiny compared to the regular length tube and I also thought there would be no hope of ever getting it on me. So really, 3/4 of an inch???
    Makes me think I should have tried it just for fun if thats the case.

    Just a thought.

    BTW rshcultz00, I read some of your other posts on this subject and it seems that things are improving for you yes?
    What you describe above with your wife is miles better than her not being interested. She sounds like she is much more interested in the power exchange now.
    Excellent news I think. Keep us posted.


  10. You should have at least tried it, yes. I know I looked at it (see attached pic) and thought "this will never work" but it does. And once in, all hopes of any kind of stiffness get snuffed out. (Not that *I* had hopes actually, I meant the little guy's hopes LOL).


    Attached Files:

  11. I really can't figure my wife out honestly.

    After the blow up, I tried giving her space for a few days. Then we went to lunch together and afterwards I apologized for my annoying behavior and told her that I appreciated her feedback. She said that now I was acting too much like a robot and keeping her distant and she didn't like that either. I told her I would improve and try to find the happy medium to please her.

    Cut to ... this weekend. We had to go out of town Sat morning so she handed me the key and said she didn't want to have me travelling with it. After two and a half weeks of lock up, I wasn't about to argue with her.

    Saturday night after a few drinks, we were talking and she said that she was starting to see why rules made things better as I wouldn't have any confusion or need to ask about things. I agreed that it does create problems when I don't have clear direction. One thing she wanted to put into effect immediately was that when she lets me out from now on, she will tell me when she expects me back in and I should comply.

    I said I would but it raised another point which is what happens if I don't comply. She was positively beaming as she said to me "well we do have that whip (it's actually a crop - not a whip, but whatever) at home and I've been warming to the idea of using it. You know I used to ride and really know how to use it."

    I told her that I wouldn't want to be cropped, so as a deterrent, it is very effective. The more I thought about it, I'm actually a bit ashamed that I said that though. It's very selfish of me to think that way after she has been so loving to put up with my chastity fetish.

    It really seems that she is itching to use the crop (based on this comment and other drunken comments / conversations) and I shouldn't make her feel guilty if she wants to. The problem is that I *really* don't want this although at times I wish she would - in spite of my wishes - to help solidify her authority over me.

    I think tomorrow I am going to tell her that I am sorry for my response and explain my difficulty in properly submitting. I will let her know that I trust her judgment as to whether or not she thinks she needs to use it on me - or if she simply wants to use it on me to satisfy some craving of her own.

    (As a side note, during our conversation, she told me that she really enjoys knowing that I am suffering for her.)

    So ... all the problems (unsurprisingly) stem from metrying to control the situation and stifling her. It's hard to really let go though and submit properly. The longer I'm in the device, the easier it gets though.

    (sorry this is going on)

    Tonight after I re-locked myself per her orders, I couldn't help staring at her from time to time and telling her how beautiful she is. Inside I somewhat curse myself for sounding like a fool but she had this amazing smile on her face each time - I believe in big part because she is amused at my growing horniness and love (lust?) sickness for her.

    I want her so bad right now ... she did let me massage her legs and told me that she enjoyed my attention. It made me extremely happy to please her.
  12. Relax, be yourself, let her be herself and do nice things for her. The rest will fall into line.