Mistress Spike keeps me locked up no more then a week. So far usually a ruined orgasm every 3 or 4 days. Though my last real orgasm is a few weeks ago. I cant even remeber when it was. It definitely is a mixed bag. I desperately want that orgasm so bad but i HATE how i feel after and have to restart. And i really have to fight my grumpyness for a few days after orgasm. So to be honest. I prefer that mistress has great orgasms and I only get ruined ones i think. I sometimes wonder if i am on the extreme side of how muh of a jerk i can be in the days right after orgasm. So if its up to me i prefer to avoid it.