I had to select the he does but she doesn't option because it best fits the mold at the moment. We tried it almost a year ago. I practically begged my mistress to try it and she gave me permission to buy a strap on. She wanted to make it a surprise for me so she made me wait 2 months before she pegged me. She admitted how much she liked it but for some reason has not pegged me since. I think I may have annoyed her about it because I liked it so much and kept asking for it. I've been silent about it for a while now and am thinking about brining it back up to see what kind of reaction she'll give. Mistress really does control all of it.
@Lockedwithlove well before you has it done to you, you has to have 2 enema and make yourself nice and clean.
A suppository does a good enough job beforehand, then use loads of lube to make it a pleasurable experience
I've mentioned it as something that would be interesting to try but I don't think N is interested. She isn't big into ass play for either party.
We've done it for quite awhile now. If I could give some advice, I'd say firstly start small (my eyes were definitely bigger than my stomach if you know what I mean) and work your way up in toy size. Also, don't worry too much about enemas and stuff. As long as you're clean and had a bm a couple of hours befire you should be good to go. I find cleaning out down there too much can make it a little uncomfortable for some reason/ prone to irritation. Most importantly relax and have fun!
Keyholder Kim likes me clean. I try to have a BM and do a enema an hour or more before we play. Lots of lube is best. Pre-lube you and the strapon. Apply lube as needed while playing. Starting small is great. Don't for get about length. Going to long won't feel good. I like to where a butt plug before we play. Gets your end ready
While I agree about the "irritation" some what ... I think the need to use an enema is a decision that needs to be decided for each person ... for example I need to enema at least 2 times to get "clean" ... but ... as you stated my wife can have a BM and be good to go ...
I love pegging but my wife rarely gives it to me. She does penetrate me with a butt plug sometimes holding it with her hand. Last time she penetrated me was with a prostate massager and it started to REALLY feel good but when I started groaning in pleasure she stopped and said, "you are getting a little too excited." SOOO Frustrating!!!! But i love her for it. Any advise on how I can get her to use strap on more is welcome.
I really do want her to, but She wants to lose a little more of Her belly, says She cant see well enough, and doesn't want to use a mirror. We both want it so I am on my back so She can play with Her cage at the same time. She wants me to orgasm with it on!! (So do I. )
playing with objects analy is the only play I am allowed while locked... Its taken quite along time to actually like it, I remember the first time mistress told me to put my glass plug it in literally could not get it in...it hurt, and I was pushing it pretty hard as well and it just wouldn't go in..and when i did finally get it in...it ...well hurt.....now I can get it in within a few seconds and the other night I actually slept with it in and only woke up 3 hours later...with it still in there.... I only tell this story because anal play is a lot like chastity it is a journey and it can take some perseverance and practice before one can properly enjoy it....dont expect the first time you manage to get something in there for to be pleasurable as it probably wont be. Now my favorite anal toy is a medium sized ceramic dildo which tapers up to being quite thicke and it will go in there using only a bit of water as lubricant...and it feels like I am cumming constantly when I jiggle it in the right spot......it feels like a constant edge with a need to pee or ejaculate but...but I just cant get over the edge, it leaves me feeling sort of satisfied but without the mental orgasm release...and I havnt yet managed to get much milk to come out. Of course when Mistress uses her strap on it feels similar but she likes to use her larger one (which also hurt the first time...now it needs to go in slowly at first but its feels great now) and is a completely different experience when your being taken. I do wish she would do it more often..but we sluts always want more...lol....
Have been in a complete FLR for several years but just started pegging my husband recently. I should have started pegging him long ago. It is an incredible feeling to strap it on and penetrate a man, it's hard to describe the power and fulfillment that I feel. Taking my husband's ass is the ultimate assertion of my dominance and is tremendously satisfying. It also really drives home (pun intended) who is in charge and that this FLR is for real. Speaking for my husband he resisted and begged me not to peg him, but now that I have penetrated him a number of times I would describe his feelings as mixed. He can't deny the physical stimulation even though he is somewhat embarrassed at being aroused at being drilled in the ass by his wife. But since his sexuality is limited to occasional masturbation and constant oral service of me, being pegged is the most stimulation that he is going to get, and he appreciates that. But I think the most important thing is that it gives us both a strong feeling of intimacy and connection. It bothers his ego that he has to accept the traditional woman's role of submission and being penetrated, but it is intimate and bonding. So for me the experience is both loving and a gigantic ego boost. The act of screwing a man in the ass is undeniably gratifying. But surprisingly the emotional connection I feel with my husband is even more satisfying.
I really enjoyed reading this ma'am, so very beautiful and romantic, and his initial resistance and occasional dislike makes it even more profound from an FLR standpoint.
How about adding "yes and not loving it", I was into that long before the internet, 40 years ago to be exact. My wife and her longtime girlfriend took turns on pegging me while I performed oral on the other. It was great until I got an anal fissure which is a tear in your colon. Hurt like hell, got infected and I had to have surgery to fix it and then go to a Proctologist for a few weeks after the surgery to insert metal dildo like objects into my rectum to stretch it back to its original side. Since then, nothing goes in my butt. You never hear about the downside of sexual fetishes in porn and online. So while I enjoyed it, there are dangers.
Ouch! That hurts! I once felt a little pain when a gf was fingering me but nothing past that. Are there any tips as to avoid danger? Maybe avoiding pegging for too long and with thick dildos?
This exactly. I find it so empowering to pull down his panties and penetrate him. I've heard it said for a long time that fellatio is supposed to be the 'ultimate submission', so I bought a squirting dildo so BF could get the full benefit. I brought the wrong one, first. BF told me you couldn't keep it clean and when it did squirt it wasn't like a real ejaculation. We looked together and bought one he could modify. BF knows alot about stuff like that, so I asked him a few things, too. I've had him do some supervised masturbation into a big pill bottle (and spanked him for ejaculating without permission) and just kept freezing it until it was full enough. BF said you could boil some water, turn it off and put the pill bottle in the hot water and it would unfreeze. I had to turn up the water a couple of times, but eventually, I got in unfrozen so I could pull it up in the syringe and make the strapon ejaculate in his mouth. When you actually do penetrate him, it's agood idea what the others said about starting small and taking your time and using enough lube. Don't just try to p ush it in. You have to go slowly and take your time working it in. Once it's in, you have to go easy at first. Eventually, you can do hard thrusts. Sometimes I like to swat his butt a few times, too and grab him by the hair, just like you see in the porn clips.
We have tried on a handful of occasions since we got together and @MistressG has always loved the idea. I do feel uncomfortable at first when she plays with my ass but she really enjoys it so we recently purchased a proper harness and a 7inch long (but only 1.25 inch thick) dildo, the idea of the length was that she could try different positions without it coming out. Well we've had it a week and she's used it on me twice and its amazing. I have also used it on her (thoroughly cleaned) which was quite humiliating. I feel totally emasculated when she is penetrating me and last night whilst i lay on my back on the bed and she was drilling me and playing with me (I had been let out after 3 weeks locked) she started telling me how much bigger her cock was than my little one with the most amazing grin on her face as she wanked me off, OMG it was amazing and I shot my load within seconds, she found it very amusing. Interesting to read about the potential dangers, will do some more research but the girth and length of her dildo feels just right for me.
Wife literally gets dripping wet when she pegs me...but it is a rare occasion and still hard to arrange for her to do it. She has also pegged me in front of 2 of her black lovers in the past, and once she pegged me while getting fucked in the ass herself. Last time I used poppers and took a 10" black strap on.
I agree clean, start slow and work up My ex and I loved it. In fact before we broke up most of our sex was her pegging me and me giving her oral. I'm proud to say that I've introduced several women to pegging and all but one loved it. The one who didn't liked it but thought it was a lot of work and she said she felt "weird". Obviously I didn't date her long as I love receiving anal be it a strap on or the real thing.
My wife pegs me just about every week. We both enjoy it. I use a douche bulb to clean myself out first.