Fun Keyholder game (proof pics) and more

I think this sounds like a fun game! I'm a fan of his including three reasons he loves you as his keyholder. Nice way to strengthen the relationship and make sure he is thinking about you.

 

Some fun games my previous KH/Mistress had me play when we were away from eachother for a few months at a time one year:

1. The proof pic game as described above.
2. Daily assignment for either tumblr, erotic stories, or videos where she would tell me to look for something in either category and email it to her detailing why it made me strain in my cage and how I'd want to incorporate it into our play.
3. Take a plug to work. Then at any given time I'd get a text. If it wasn't inside me with a proof pic sent to her within 10 to 15 minutes, she's add a week to my lock up. Then I'd have to go how ever long she wanted with it in under my clothes.
4. At one point a buddy I worked with had a bday while we're away in another city for a conference. So he wanted to go to an upscale strip club. We all went, I was of course pantied and locked up at this point for 28 days. I thought my KH might tell me not to go but instead she encouraged it. Then she texted me and said pick the most gorgeous woman there and ask for a private dance, keep your phone handy. There was this beautiful brunette who looked a little older then the rest of the girls and was just stunning. She agreed and we went to a back room. She grinned widely as she was grinding into me thinking that the cage was something else. Then my KH texted me and said to ask her if it was ok to facetime with her and then show her my phone. I explained to her that my GF was also my Mistress and she wanted to facetime while I got the dance. She smiled even wider and was game for it. When she got in she explained I was caged, to please not mention it to anyone but make sure I went home near tears. As she grinded me they chatted for a few more minutes and then she even went way over time after we hung up asking all sorts of questions. She was very fascinated and clearly turned on by the idea. One of the hottest public outings outside of a D/s party I ever had.

 

And you can have him post here and PM a KH that he wants and needs to be secured and locked 24/7/365. And put it in writing to you - ideally on the back of one of his proof pix.

 

I am in a long distance relationship and currently have my boyfriend locked up, but i am finding it hard to think of punishments for him when he disobeys me and the rules, what have you done to punish him when you arent with him?

 

1. Make him put clothespins on his nipples while you tell him to jerk off and then stop him before he cums.
2. Make him whip his balls and cock.
3. Make him put ice or toothpaste on his cock to kill his hardon.
3. Make him put wax ob his cock and nipples or anywhere you want.
4. Make him put clothespins on his sack rofl
5 Make him pull and take off the clothespins on his nipples and sac.
I hope you have plenty for the time.
Cheers

 

make him have a nasty spiky thing put in his cage, giggle.

 

Well I am guessing you are using web cams .
There are countless things you cando to him while you watch.
To prepare him mentally for total obedience you might want to use a few military brainwashing techniques.
Have him email you every 45 minutes around the clock for 3 days during a long weekend. Have him set his alarm so he jumps out of bed and begins typing, telling how dedicated he is to you ,and how he lives only to obey and please you.
Have him repeat phrases, and If he can send recordings , so much the better , he cant copy and paste them.
For great ideas I suggest a blog by :"cruel mistress sarah " She offers all kinds of methods of long distance domination, and also is into phone sex, but her articles she mails out is what I would suggest .
Have him suck cock, j/o and swallow his cum, tie large pop bottle to his nuts then have him partially fill it with water and as it dangles have him jump and jerk , or just jump. Add more weight by adding more water.
Have fun.

 

I don't know about other men, but I don't think my brain will let me whip my own balls with any scary/painful/punishing amount of force.

 

I am sharing this conversation with Her. Thank you all for the intersting ideas!!!!

 

I can usually give myself a very hard stoke with length of cable ( cablevision cable) , but I have to work up to it and usually across my thighs. It takes quite a few minutes to give myself a second one . After two I'm cured of wanting another.

 

can I play, please

 

Dear Dogchasesdcats,
I very much enjoyed reading your posts, and find your suggestions a great idea.

Before I go any farther I want you to know I'm a sissy, and see a non pro Lady several times a year for a few days to a little over a week at a time. She has me caged when seeing her, but I'm more of a part time sub and loose interest if the stimulation from serving her isn't constant. It usually gets boring after the second day and I hang in for a few more days before rudely ignoring her texts. I don't get any thrill from following her around as she shops, and if I'm not being humiliated and/or treated like the inferior sub I am , it is like I'm just a taxi driver.
I'm thinking your club may help me and others who have no owner.
OK that's enough about me,

I'm wondering about your "club " allowing subs without KH's to join too . Most men who are into chastity and submission have no one to own or hold their key. They are faced with cold pro Dominatrixes, who only want their money.
I just read this thread this morning so My ideas have not all come together , and I'm sure many more positive things will pop up as I think about the benefits to both caged and key holding members.

Lets say sub A joins your club, he would write a detailed letter explaining what he is looking for and his approximate location . He would state his areas of expertise , besides his occupation , he may be an excellent handy man, or house painter.
His post would be read by all members, and with luck he would be chosen by a Lady to " try him out" .
All communication would be public to all club members. Therefore giving other potential "owners" an idea of what the sub is good for ( if anything) . If Lady A finds him not to her liking perhaps another Lady who has been monitoring the posts will find him to her liking , and try her hand at enslaving him.

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Other Ladies would add their suggestions and even inferior males could suggest things from their point of view.
Once a Lady claims a sub as her property ,it would be her choice to continue to have post online or not
If the sub had no takers , he would be placed in the slave pool, and depending on his abilities and education, he would be put to good use by any of the Ladies who had errands for him to run.
The sub could be put to work doing research for projects such as gathering information an anything from how to raise the best tomatos, to how to file for a divorce in a certain jurisdiction.
I once had a Pro Dominatrix who I fell in love with .She was from another town, and she had me researching income tax rulings ,and forming a Ltd. company to get a tax break.
She had me sign her up for memberships on discount airlines and find hotels and their rates for her .
Anything she wanted to know ,she just asked me to find out .

It might be pushing things at first , but if the sub posted his general location , say within 50 miles or so, and if he was a bit of a handy man , he could be put to use at no cost . His reward would be negotiated beforehand, like maybe a whipping when the job was completed satisfactorily. Once the sub performed a task and was given a gold star by the Lady using him others may follow suit knowing him to be "safe" .
Before any of this would take place many safe guards would be set up. The sub might perform his duties with several people present for safety reasons. As the sub earned the Ladys confidence things may change. I'm sure many Ladies would like their lawns mowed, and sidewalks cleared of snow . This could be done with out the sub even meeting the Lady .He would gradually win her trust and maybe things could go from there.

If a Lady wanted more than one sub serving her this would be a great way to start a table.
The main thing is that there is a huge surplus of unused subs willing to serve ( desperately willing).
I hope I didn't get to carried away with my thoughts .
nikkel