Pussy free lifestyle commitment

Well said Breathe......I try to avoid it altogether but my previous Mistress actually enjoyed a similar word for her vagina so I tend to listen for womens preferences.

 

I constantly wonder how divine pussy must feel like since most men can't even fathom being without it for any extended period of time. Some even claim they can't function properly without regular sex or that it should be a basic human right to have access to sex. Pussy literally drives alot of men crazy and into desperate acts if they can't have it or they lose their woman. All that just makes me wonder how good it must feel to be inside a woman for men to feel such desperation at the thought of going without.

 

I use the term pussy unless the lady involved doesn't care for it. I've found over the years that there are lots of other words that substitute for vagina, which comes across to me as a word for use in a medical situation.

I'm pussy-free, and have been for almost 2 years. Check my banner below for an exact length of time. In the last 5 years, I was barely allowed intercourse at all, and in 2011, my wife also decided I wasn't going to see her nude anymore. I used to eat her all the time, but that was stopped over a year ago, too. Lately, she began to insist on a no-touch rule, too. She's always liked me to fuck her without touching her with anything but my little penis, which has morphed into her only touching my penis with her hand during my once in a while hand jobs. Since I've become pussy-free, I cum from the hand jobs in less than a minute, and sometimes even before I can get erect.

I've been able to adjust to all of it easier than I thought I would. I got to the point where seeing porn with a woman being penetrated with a cock was a bit of a shock, since I had forgotten cocks were used to have sex. I'm sure that sounds ridiculous, but with all the things I learned from my ex-key holder, it became normal for me to never consider using my little dick for sex with a woman. My KH also started me on permanent chastity, meaning I was never going to be erect, have penetration, or cum again for life. When she began my lock-up, she was going to allow me one cum in 2015, one in 2016, and my last one forever sometime during or after 2017. I agreed to her schedule, because it was something I'd wanted since I was a teenager. I was essentially given a de facto castration, which was what my KH wanted, and I wanted as well.

My KH and I parted ways after 6 months or so, but the training she gave me has worked wonders for me. I no longer masturbate, I can't get erect without direct stimulation from my wife, and I'll never be allowed inside a woman again. I can't thank her enough for what she did for me.

 

I have not even dreamed about intercourse for several years now. I do terribly miss oral sex however (giving that is). I'm trying to come to terms with the idea that this will never happen either and that I should train myself not to fantasize about it any longer. That leaves masturbation...…..sigh - at least I have some hope of getting permission.

 

thank you Mistress for the reminder,

 

Excuse me, besides the rightful comments from Mistress Lucy, when scrolling through this thread i wondered about the use of language. you talk about not being allowed to penetrate. Is that what you mean by the indeed blunt 'Pussy free'? Like Bill Clinton claiming not having sex with 'that woman' (sic)?
What about adoring and worshipping your Better Half through cunnilingus? To kneel before Her, to be allowed to come so close, enchanted by Her Scent, to touch Her most intimate body part with your nose and tongue?

i myself never really liked fucking. Too much association with rape (and i cannot stand getting 'blow jobs', it is something deep inside me, subconscious at first. Twice in my whole life Girls thought doing me a pleasure with a blowjob. Within 30 seconds i was soft.)

But cunnilingus is what i crave and can do for hours.

If the Woman wants penetration I prefer the accommodator.
A dildo strapped to the chin, keeping nose and mouth free. So close seeing the Gate opening, the fluid dripping on my chin, deeper in till nose and tongue reach the Labia and Clitoris.
Absolute Heaven!

And when She comes, the spasms, the squirting. O dear that is what i live for. So if this also falls under 'Pussy free', i am out ;-)

 

Well I guess the male equivalent of that word is "dick" and women use that quite often, so it should be fine to use the c word for men.