Just thought I should share our experience we had at the weekend. Lady C had been threatening a spanking all weekend since Friday when I had playfully slapped her ass as she bent down to fill the dishwasher. Saturday came and went and nothing. Sunday as she left for work she "suggested" that I should be naked and ass ready for her when she got back. So one harsh spanking later, ask if you want to know more about that, but it was time for the aftercare. She sat on her seat with a wine and wanted me to kneel in front of her, ass in the air so she could review aforementioned spanking. After a few minutes she started rubbing my ass cheeks, and then lightly sliding a finger down the crease, stopping every so often right at my bum hole and slightly pressing. This went on for at least a whole glass of white, which she duly refilled and returned with a dildo. Not any old dildo, but a replica of my own cock - that was back in the days when I could freely have an erection. Anyway she continued to rub up and down the crease, but this time with the dildo, and still pressing at the hole. By this I've noticed that I'm straining in my cage, then relaxing using these pelvic floor muscles you use when you wanted to make your erection look bigger - anyone remember erections? Anyway, she continues on as I'm telling her its doing things for me. Did that make her stop? Of course it didn't. Here I am, caged, being rubbed on the ass with a dildo and then she starts with the lube and squeezes every so gently, then a bit firmer until the cock head is just inside. And that's when the clenching/tensing then relaxing went to a new level. I could only take another 15-30 seconds of that pushing/pulling/twisting of the dildo before I started pouring cum, not spurting like an orgasm would be, but it seemed to go on for ever. So, call it what you want (BTW neither of us do CD/sissy and Lady C especially does not like the word sissygasm) but I was astonished about how easy it had been for her to do this to me. I want to believe that it was the pelvic muscles pushing against the cage that was the trigger, or that my balls hadn't been emptied for a long while, but she has other thoughts and says it was her doing. In her own words: "Face it hon, you came because there was a cock in your ass... your cock". Any the real orgasmic bit about this story is. She's been trying to make me come from anal stimulation since we met 18 years ago and has failed up to now. So next time, she says, she's going to perfect her technique. Can't imagine how.
As you described, the two types of orgasms are quite different! I've tried lots of methods and by accident found out that the less I did to my prostate, the more it wanted, and the needier it is, the easier it does it's thing. And when it happens, it's like you said. No spurts, just a constant flow of warm spasms that are totally out of your control. Congrats on your breakthrough.
Well, I think she's found her method, and it starts with one harsh spanking, so I have a feeling you'll be getting more of that. And yes, I'd like more details on the spanking itself.
Was it a pleasant orgasm? Did it feel like one? Or did it feel like nothing, followed by a puddle on the floor? What was your emotional state afterwards?
It wasn't unpleasant, but wasn't fulfilling and didn't feel like one as there was no uncontrolled spasms. So probably the latter, I could feel it pouring out and then a puddle (Lady C has promised they'll be something there the next time - either a towel or a glass). Afterwards I still felt horny.
I've had orgasms while caged using a vibrator. Haven't experienced the prostate version. I think that when in the cage, it's basically a ruined orgasm, same as stroking to orgasm then no touching right before and when it happens. These leave you unsatisfied, and in spite of the spilt milk, hornier than before you started. I mean, how sweet is that?
Yes, I had one of those recently about a month ago, while caged. Bitterly disappointing is how it felt to me. But I had to put on a happy face for my wife/mistress who rushed to clean it up. She pulled me up and made me watch as she wiped it up, giggling about it as she did so. The feeling of being trapped in my cage, gagged, with hands loosely cuffed behind me was heart-breaking. I wanted to cry. I hope the next time, she'll order me to lick it up. Of course a relief jerk-off might have helped, but that wasn't on the menu. She never lets me unlock during one of our sessions.
Gotta be ruined as it was in the cage. We're still evaluating what happened. Ok she's off to work tomoz and I'm seeing if I can get a round of golf in. But it wasn't a prostate thing. Lady C never got close to touching my prostrate, let alone stimulate it.
Is a release sweet? When caged it's a very frustrating thing. You want more but it's been restricted by something, somebody and then.... you crave more, lots more.
Sounds like you might be as interested to try this again as Lady C. This could very well progress to a good hard pegging. Has she ever tried a strap on with you? Good things to come, I’m sure. Keep us posted
We've never had great success with pegging. The mental is great, but it's not us. Yes we've done strappons, but more sucking and gagging.
We generally don't do anal, I do not find it nice, although in the head it is. She's been waiting 18 years to this to happen.