In FLR, is limited to cunnilingus common?

I am in a 24/7 FLR with a Dominant partner, and we don't even try to engage or entertain the thought, but She expressed fears that I was seeking to want to steer things that way.

I explained that with an arena as large as the one we play in, there would be no real reason to limit ourselves to any one thing. For us the journey is a marathon and not a track meet, and so, the goal is never to focus on any one pattern. We play in a lot of ways, each of them rewarding in its own way.

It occurs to me that chastity play is something by design to stimulate creativity and imagination, and so to turn it into the equivalent of a vanilla married couple having boring missionary sex for 7 minutes twice a month (an analogy) is counter productive. It feels a little like deciding to eat a ham sandwich and ramen for every meal for the rest of your life. My answer is not just no, but hell no, despite that being a very fun exercise, for what it's worth.

 

I'm allowed PIV one to twice a month (AND LAST NIGHT WAS THE NIGHT!). She rarely comes from PIV with me anymore- I am locked 24/7 and my staying power is limited. Any PIV is strictly a reward or if she just really needs penetration.

Her orgasms are strictly from fingers, tongue, or me using a strap on while locked.

Our experience has inexorably been towards making me pussy free. She simply doesn't need my penis; and she much prefers my attitude and personality when kept continuously locked.

 

I'm only allowed to jerk myself off now under her supervision. It started with her giving me PIV after she came home from a date. Then this changed to a BJ. Then through the years it went to her giving me a handjob. But now she will come home , tell me about her date as she lets me jerk myself off. Sex now is between her and her lover.

 

i am one of those who is not allowed any PIV, because of my small penis and premature ejaculation. While she definitely enjoys cunnilingus and has it whenever she wants, she also very much enjoys having a large cock inside her. My role is simply to please her however she wants, whenever she wants, for as long as it takes her to have at least one orgasm, whether it's with my tongue, my fingers, her favorite dildo, or any combination of those.

 

I'm in the exact same situation that you are in. Since marriage to my wife , I was slowly weaned off PIV. Was put into lock. I'm used for cunnilingus only. My only reward is when she comes home from a date, if he did his job and satisfied her, she will unlock me and let me jerk off as she watches.

 

I am allow to do that with Mistress but it not really cos of me be Her maid its cos my willy is not like a mans one. i love doing it when she let me.

 

We're still 95% PIV. Every once in a while she will allow me to massage her to an orgasm, but even then, she often wants a second one with me inside her.

Frequency is lower, though, because I never pressure her for sex. If anything, I try to prolong the period of time before PIV (even though I do want it!) because I so enjoy our time together with me lost in sub space and complete mush in her hands.

(And she doesn't permit me to go down on her. Maybe some day I will get lucky and be allowed to ... I used to, and she did enjoy it.)

 

If I take Viagra, I am allowed PIV, I'm just not allowed to cum.

 

It gets challenging sometimes being locked 24/7. I work in an unpaid position for my wife's company. She's been in her front corner office on the phone with clients all day. I'm stuck in my own small office down the hall, with the rest of the hourly employees (at least they get an actual paycheck) thinking on a conversation I had with her this morning.

I'm in her bathroom, naked except for my cage, waiting for her to disrobe so I can wash her. She drops her jam bottoms to the floor (I'll have to pick those up later for wash). She turns to enter her shower. I walk up behind her, and gently rub my cage against her butt cheek. She stops, spreads her legs, and slowly arches her back, bending over and pushing herself against my cage. I grip her hips, slowly grinding myself against her as I lean in to kiss her neck and nibble on her ear. I'm totally in the moment...imagining how incredible it would be to just slide into her amazing pussy and make love to my amazing wife. And then she stands up and turns around to face me.

She glances down at my half-mast erection; my dick stupidly juts straight out- held there by the weight of the cage as the end of my penis swells against the bars. My erection can't quite lift the device up. "It seems you have managed to get yourself all wound up this morning" she says. I reply that I was fantasizing about the days when I could take my wife and enjoy her pussy.

"But you couldn't handle it, and got yourself all locked up." I say yes, and I sure wish I was unlocked and allowed to enjoy her.

"You messed up and wanted chastity. You wanted to surrender to me. And now it's done, and I prefer you locked and denied. You are nicer that way and I prefer this," she says as she pointed to my helplessly caged dick.

I say I could be nice to her all the time if I could enjoy her pussy every day.

"But can you though? Can you get that dick hard and fuck me like I want every day??" I insist that I could make love to her every day and be extra nice.

"Ahh, but you CAN'T can you? You CAN'T get that dick up every day. And I do want it. But since you can't fuck me like I want every day, I'll settle for your nice, compliant, gentle personality. And I get that with your dick locked in my cage. Be careful what you wish for. You will spend the rest of your life locked in chastity except for the times I think you are allowed an orgasm. There will never be any escape for you. Now get ready for work."

 

my Wife generally prefers me to pleasure her orally (I never get pleasured orally period).

In some rare cases she does decide she wants to ride me; the cage is taken off but I can only cum with her permission. In other words: I have to focus on not having an orgasm unless she allows me to, which takes a lot of discipline.

She will always be on top and I will be collared when she rides me. Clean-up depends on her mood although I am generally required to consume my semen.

 

The story is alot like mine. I work for my wifes business, also unpaid. I run the book keeping, and accounts . I work from home most days, but go to the office once or twice a week as needed .When working from home , I'm in female clothes over my cb6000s. At the office panties over the cb6000s, and male clothes. I'm a sub and a cuck in chastity.
But where we differ, I no longer am allowed to see my wife naked or partially dressed. So no more cunnilingus, not for the last 5 years . Strictly cfnm when she unlocks me and allows me to pleasure myself .
When working from home I have chores to do in our home , my sister in laws home and mother in laws home .

 

My wife has never had children, and seems to have a slightly shorter than average vagina,so intercourse was sometimes uncomfortable for her. She's discovered that oral not only avoids that little problem, but that when I don't cum during sex, it goes on long enough for her to have two, three, and sometimes more orgasms in a session, and that's every time. She also never really enjoyed getting wet and sticky afterwards, always having to nip to the bathroom afterwards. Now she can stay warm and comfortable and we just drift off in each others arms.

Very occasionally, she really wants PIV, but that seems to be getting more and more infrequent, when after months she does unlock me for sex, it's more often now that first I get allowed to masturbate, the next day I might get PIV after I've given her oral, and if I'm very lucky I'll have PIV a second time before I'm locked up for a long period again. Maybe she's just letting me have PIV because she feels guilty about not doing so.

We're both enjoying the lifestyle so much, now if she unlocks me for any reason I tend more often than not to just lock up automatically as soon as the reason has been achieved, so PIV in future is likely to average at much less than once per "outing". She's always seemed to enjoy me masturbating beside her at least as much as she did PIV, and a couple of times now when I've been unlocked the only release I've had was solo. I almost dread having an orgasm now because the downer I get can be very strong, my labido can go for a day or two, so I'd rather not have the orgasm and when I'm unlocked I more often than not just want to get locked up again, so that's also pushing us away from PIV.

So yes, our sex life is now 99% me giving her oral, and we're both loving it.

 

You say it like it's a bad thing

 

@TonyF25 are you not allow to sleep with your wife now then and please how many times a year are you allow to make a mess . i wud miss it horrible if i was not allow to see Mistress undress.

 

Before meeting my Queen, I lived with a Lady who would sentence my to periods of time ,up to 6 months with no orgasms with her. I went down on her about 4 times a week, she never let5 me cum. After her "O" she pulled me up and had me insert my penis and give about 4 pumps then pushed me aside .. I loved being horny all the time ,and it made me more obediant . I looked forward to hearing her say '"good boy" .

 

I agree that an orgasm is a downer ,I find that being left without one is like 24/7 foreplay. I am gaged at times ,other times like now, I'm away from my Queen but for 10 days uncaged ,I have not j/o . A very nice sensation runs all through my body .

 

I understand the feelings , I love being denied and punished.

 

Oh hell yes. I'm expected to seduce her every morning and every night and then satisfy her orally. Of course life gets in the way or other toys get used sometimes but I better try really hard or else...

 

Is common for us. Oral servitude is our sex. She often straddles on top of me, facing her direction of choice.

 

My Mistress is very demanding when it comes to me giving her oral. Most times she straddles me facing my locked up cock, which she teases as well as my nipples and just knowing when to stop in mid moans, this is while she's getting a good tonguing from me, starting with her pussy then her nice tight bum hole.
When she's finished with me in that way, I'm made to lie face down on the vinyl sheet in all her juices that had gathered there, usually then it's my bumhole gets the attention it deserves.

 

My Baby / Mistress , has the same view point . I use my tongue, fingers, and viberator for her to cum. I liove that I'm 24./7 locked .

 

Yes! This describes our present situation perfectly. And, while it hasn’t happened yet, I can feel our relationship moving towards a cuckold dynamic. My wife admits that she pretty badly wants PIV sex with a certain colleague who has expressed a strong interest in her. She usually thinks about him while I go down on her and there was a pretty close call during the last out of town conference they were both at. It’s probably just a matter of time until he’s her guy for PIV and I’m her domestic man limited to using my hands and mouth to give her pleasure.

 

I do a lot of worship, especially before bedtime. I may worship her feet, which I love to do as we lay head to toe in bed and she lazily plays with my caged cock and balls as long as I am worshipping.

If not her feet, then yes, I perform oral on her. She can get worked up pretty fast and will have me stop if she gets too excited. I also have really been into ass worship lately and going longer and longer with my face buried in her ass and she is becoming quite accustomed to it

Though last night, she told me I had been neglecting her breasts so I worshiped them until she fell asleep.

She is now "official" with her girlfriend and on the rare occasions I get to be involved, I get to worship her girlfriend's pussy, ass, and feet as she desires while they make love.

 

I agree that having an orgasm is a downer.. I'm caged and wouldn't have it any other way.. My last orgasm was about 5 months ago .