newbie

  1. A

    Hello everyone

    I am new to this world of FLR. I'm here because me and my partner are interested in femdom and FLR. We want to try it. I hope to learn here and make friends.
  2. fellow_man

    BDSM-Themed Novel, Any and All Help Much Appreciated

    Hello all, First, I apologize if I posted this in the wrong sub-forum. Second, I am an amateur, unpublished novelist, currently writing a BDSM-centric novel with a focus on cuckolding, though with a variety of additional fetishes also taking important roles. I am coming to you all today to...
  3. P

    Introduction and Inquiry

    Hello everyone, My name is Light and I got introduced into chastity when I failed NoFap many times and started looking into ball trap devices. I am more leaning towards into vanilla chastity. However ball trap devices' security is low, with enough maneuvering, it is escapable, and it only...
  4. GoodBoy23

    Started this year by locking the cock

    Hello everyone! New to the site and to being locked 🔐. Me and my girlfriend of 4years wanted to spice things up. She is my key holder and after many months of communication and being open with one another we have grown to love the dynamic. While the longest I’ve been in chastity has been one...
  5. M

    I am new to this

    Hello Everyone I am a M(23) from India. I bought my first new cage. It is Cb6000 knockoff. Using it with second largest ring with no spacers. Want to go 24x7. Self Caged.
  6. HeCallsMeMommi

    New (KH) here because life got unexpectedly... different

    I met The Young Man (28) on a dating app 2 weeks and 5 days ago and here I am blogging in a journal on a male chastity site. Not where I thought I'd be at 36 years old. Within the first 24 hours of messaging he mentioned wanting a hotwife and being into male chastity. And how much he wanted me...
  7. HeCallsMeMommi

    2 weeks and 5 days - WTF Am I Doing?!

    I met The Young Man (28) on a dating app 2 weeks and 5 days ago and here I am blogging in a journal on a male chastity site. Not where I thought I'd be at 36 years old. Within the first 24 hours of messaging he mentioned wanting a hotwife and being into male chastity. And how much he wanted me...
  8. CagedFemboy

    Newbie looking for tips!

    Hey all! I'm new around here and wanted to start by briefly saying hello, and asking some questions if I may. I heard about this site via an arbitrary 'good chastity websites' list, but it seems quite promising so far. How has your experience here been? Anyone had any luck finding Keyholders...
  9. W

    Difficulty with First Chastity Device. Help!

    Hi all, My girlfriend and I have recently been experimenting with chastity. I’ve tried a few devices from HoD with little success. I have this problem - a 55mm oval ring allows me to slip out. a 50mm oval ring doesn’t, but it slides forward when I become erect. I think this is what’s...
  10. Journeybegins

    New here!

    Hi all, long time lurker, first time poster. been somewhat obsessed with the idea of chastity for years but have only recently taken the plunge into owning a cage etc. started with a vice a year or so ago and really struggled with the rings as they kept chaffing me. I discovered cheap steel...
  11. M

    Hello, still fairly new to chastity.

    I was a complete chastity beginner maybe 2 months ago. Literally I'm too scared to take photos, so I guess I'm shy. But, I love the kink, and now own too many devices, lol. This seems like a great place to hang out and learn more. So, maybe I'll show-off eventually. I might even write some...
  12. L

    hope to stay locked in the future

    hi, I recently tried a cage but it didn't fit well. I am hoping to purchase a new cage soon (considering cherry keepers right now) and stay locked for longer. it is such a turn on and I really want to try it for a long time. I hope my next cage fits better. has anyone tried both cherry keepers...
  13. Sarako

    blue balls never go away and chastity

    Hello! I've been trying to use a cage since january this year, with my gf as the key holder. The issue is that i get so, so horny, and i start getting blue balls, i like the tease, pleasuring her, everything. The blueballs never fade away, they keep growing and growing day to day, until it...
  14. HerDevotedOne1980

    A new man's journal, from the beginning

    Welcome to my mind.... I've only discovered chastity within the last 2 months. I came across it by happenstance and found it intriguing, and recognized it as a way to control my habit of self pleasure as well as introducing a new element of spice to my marraige. As many will likely agree, I am...
  15. herpdiderp

    Some sore skin and a slight ball ache.

    I’m attempting to begin increasing how long I can be in chastity, using my Tightly Packed Chastity Cage. It’s not a premium cage or anything, but for a first cage I’ve found it relatively comfortable, to the point where I can wear it for a few hours as a complete newbie. Erections can be very...
  16. herpdiderp

    Enclosed Steel Cage Recomendations

    I am currently interested in trying a enclosed design steel cage. The ones I’ve been looking at seem to be modeled off of the CB6000 design, but I’d like some other recommendations. I’ve been looking around but haven’t particularly fallen in love with some of the other designs I’ve seen, and...
  17. W

    I might regret this in the morning...

    Hey all, don't know how active Chaster users are on here but recently I've tried a lock on that app and the subspace it's sent my mind into is boggling. Every time I see that timer go and there's nothing I can do about it, it just draws me deeper and deeper. I know that when I wake up in the...
  18. T

    Hi I'm Tyler, I'm new here.

    Hi I'm Tyler, I am beta and virgin. I'm shy. I have been wearing chastity off and on for two years. I'm currently wearing device similar to cb6000. I'm currently on Emlalock with no keyholder.
  19. Nyslutboy

    Excited to be here

    I’m just at the start of my chastity journey and am eager to meet people whom I can finally discuss my experiences and observations and share tips. From a cursory look at the site it appears to skew heavily towards Female-led relationships. So to be transparent, I’m a gay white man being...
  20. Mon Jouet

    Hello

    Hello all, I'm new here and also to the chastity lifestyle. I am a collared sub, my wife (now owner) and I having decided to enter into a FLR and my chastity is a part of this new and exciting chapter of our lives together, we are enjoying the change of dynamic in our relationship and it has...