New (KH) here because life got unexpectedly... different

HeCallsMeMommi

HeCallsMeMommi

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I met The Young Man (28) on a dating app 2 weeks and 5 days ago and here I am blogging in a journal on a male chastity site. Not where I thought I'd be at 36 years old.

Within the first 24 hours of messaging he mentioned wanting a hotwife and being into male chastity. And how much he wanted me to me his keyholder. *insert mindblown with a side of wtf?! here* As if the 9 year gap between us, the BWWM dynamic, and the 95 miles between us wasn't going to make this complicated enough. I didn't think it would work given I identify as a brat. And while I do have an aggressive side, I enjoy dominant men. I made him take the online BDSM test - my first bossy move - and appreciated that he rated in the 70s or 80s a switch. Maybe this could work...

So here I am on CM to learn and grow and really invest in this lifestyle, because 2 wonderful dates, an uncountable myriad of texts, a video call, and some fun sexting later I could really see myself with this man. His chastity is inspired by his desire to be the best husband and father for his future family. What woman wouldn't want to be able to mold her perfect life partner?!
 
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Mr_anonymous said:
Didn't you post exactly this something like a week ago?
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It was literally yesterday. In Journal and Blogs. So kind of the wrong section. I can see Her post an intro now of the same type. This one doesn't have a poll. It should have had the poll here, rather than there. But I digress....
 
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Hello and welcome to CM. Explore the many forums and experiences shared here. I am sure you will become very in-tune with your new relationship. Good luck on your journey in both cases...there and here!
 
denied_one said:
It was literally yesterday. In Journal and Blogs. So kind of the wrong section. I can see Her post an intro now of the same type. This one doesn't have a poll. It should have had the poll here, rather than there. But I digress....
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Yes, I'm not really sure what I'm doing. IRL or on this site when it comes to this. I guess it's not for me.
 
Mr_anonymous said:
Didn't you post exactly this something like a week ago?
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It was the day before, which was the day I joined and was trying to figure out the platform. I'm not really sure what I'm doing when it comes to this KH thing IRL or on this site. I guess it's not for me. Thanks for the understanding and empathy.
 
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HeCallsMeMommi said:
I met The Young Man (28) on a dating app 2 weeks and 5 days ago and here I am blogging in a journal on a male chastity site. Not where I thought I'd be at 36 years old.

Within the first 24 hours of messaging he mentioned wanting a hotwife and being into male chastity. And how much he wanted me to me his keyholder. *insert mindblown with a side of wtf?! here* As if the 9 year gap between us, the BWWM dynamic, and the 95 miles between us wasn't going to make this complicated enough. I didn't think it would work given I identify as a brat. And while I do have an aggressive side, I enjoy dominant men. I made him take the online BDSM test - my first bossy move - and appreciated that he rated in the 70s or 80s a switch. Maybe this could work...

So here I am on CM to learn and grow and really invest in this lifestyle, because 2 wonderful dates, an uncountable myriad of texts, a video call, and some fun sexting later I could really see myself with this man. His chastity is inspired by his desire to be the best husband and father for his future family. What woman wouldn't want to be able to mold her perfect life partner?!
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I never thought I would ever think this way but I truly believe it is the best thing that my wife and I ever did it’s a different kind of life and I always thought that I was a great man and husband but now I think I am a supportive husband and she has been with some amazing men and she has really enjoyed it and I think that I have gotten so much more enjoyment since and I think that I really should have been caged from the beginning of our marriage because it has really been the most amazing and eye opening experience I’ve had realized that I wasn’t the man sexually that she needs but the man emotionally to support and love her has really made our marriage so much stronger
 
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