ruined orgasm

  1. Andylocked

    Ruined Orgasms

    Anyone here strict enough with themselves to believe a Ruined orgasm is cheating? I was wondering what the consensus on this forum was regarding ruined Os… To me, it seems that dicklet would be getting way too much pleasure - if it gets you to the point of ejaculating - which it effectively...
  2. toy4mami

    New-ish to Chastity

    Hi, you can call me toy4mami, or toy for short. I'm a tall black submissive male, with a keyholder who is the love of my life, and I can't wait to make my wife. I'm here just to talk shop, share, stories, tricks and ways to make chastity more (or less‍) comfortable. I enjoy being teased, in an...
  3. SlaveDan237

    Partial Orgasms?

    Me and my partner recently invested in a wand vibrator (best money ever spent btw). Ive been using it to edge myself whilst caged and have occasionaly been experiencing something I'm not sure how to define. I'll sometimes take the wand away just as I feel I'm about to orgasm and a I'll feel...
  4. S

    Questions about ruining my orgasms

    So, I’ve just started to ruin my orgasms. I love it, not at the time, feeling of nothing is disappointing but afterwards I’m constantly horny and my dick won’t really work. Normally, our sex life, is was pleasing her for 30 mins and then her pleasing me for 4 or 5 minutes at the end. I always...
  5. Naveen

    Seeking for mistress who is not doing it as a job!

    Im looking for a mistress who is not doing it as job, only for fun would like to know anyone interested! Please dm me with conditions. (Only massaging with instructions are fine)
  6. shieldingmatrix

    Ruined Orgasm with Self-Bondage to help in holding off...

    Ruined Orgasm with Self-Bondage to help in holding off... Looking for ideas here. Concept is that in order to give yourself a real ruined orgasm where you begin to cum without stimulation, but then don't rush in to help finish it, because you are too weak to really stop yourself, and of...
  7. maxsecurity4sub

    Frustrating masturbation / ruining

    I read a story many years ago (probably in Penthouse Variations in the pre-internet era) about a keyholder who had her sub lay down naked on the bed and tied his ankles/feet to the bedposts. Leather handcuffs were then attached to his wrists and a leather collar was fixed so that his head was...
  8. R

    Chastity schedule

    I am new to self locking, I have a good starter chastity also. I am looking for some sort of agenda plan on how long to stay locked, when to edge myself, deny or ruin. I am open to urethral play and prostate milking which I tried the other day and was crazy feeling in a good way. Looking for...
  9. esposoEsclavo

    Questions about prostate milking, ruined orgasms, and blue balls

    Hello all, my wife and I have been playing with chastity lately. After about 10 days I was in such a great place. Constantly horny, a little defeated, and very submissive. It was heaven for both me and my wife. :) But I suffered a lot of pain from blue balls. We did a lot of edging so maybe...
  10. uniquerubique

    Last day in freedom for 20 weeks

    We are completely new to all this. My wife has been complaining about my weight lately. I’m 98kg and should probably weigh around 70-75kg. I haven’t really found the motivation to loose weight until I stumbled across a weight loss program involving chastity(!!). I was instantly hooked and read...
  11. goodforyou

    Tips for selflocking discipline without keyholder/Mrs

    Hello, still a newbie here. Are there people here who lock themselves because there is no keyholder? And how do you control yourself, manage release if you need it for physical health or because you think you deserve it. How to avoid cheating? I have a wife but she is not into it yet and since...
  12. Ms Maree

    He’s made a month in since RO ❤️

    Well he made it. One month since his ruined orgasm. During that time he’s been teased, tormented, cropped, belted and wound up with a flesh light too. His balls must be full to over flowing ❤️ He’s been locked in a CB6000 while awaiting his Cherry Keeper which he’s now locked in. I allow...
  13. R

    Chastity cage cumming...

    Hi, I’ve been wondering what you mistresses, ladies and women think is allowed pleasure for a guy? For instance, being locked in a cock cage makes me increasingly more sexually frustrates, to the point that if I watch a porn video... I’m able to practically have a ruined orgasm just from this...
  14. Prettysmall

    Edging

    Ok so I want to ask about a edging. How often do u do it also, how long should each session last? Right now wife thinks it's hot, and we go for about 3 mins maybe 2 times a week. I think it's pointless not cuz I cant and dont cum, but I think it defeats the purpose of chastity. Because it let's...
  15. cogman

    Reseting the denial counter

    I have been denied since Christmas day, although during this time I have been allowed certain pleasures such as trying to get hard while numbed, being taken by a strapon, as well as PIV sex where I was not permitted to cum (but Mistress did :) my favorite ) and lucky enough to have some other...
  16. FLRChastity guy

    KH in Dubaj

    Searching KH in FLR in Dubai
  17. M

    Edging and ruining the orgasm - need help

    Hi guys, here I am again. You helped me out a great deal on my other thread and I hope you will too with this topic. It is about edging and ruining an orgasm. I really like the concept :-) I would really like to edge my boyfriend, as in "bring him REALLY close and then don't let him cum"...
  18. Peter Rabbit

    Spilled in my Cage, again...

    This is becoming a consistent thing. I’m reading about permanent chastity, and my flaccid cock decides to pour out cum. It doesn’t twitch. I’m not throbbing. But my mental arousal causes my body to empty out in slow and thick pools of white semen. It happened in December. It happened earlier...
  19. Mommas Puppers

    New lifestyle couple

    hi all! I’m new to the Mansion, but my wife and I are not new to the kink, but we are now a lifestyle couple; and me being the more adventurous one, I decided to do some advanced scouting. You may have seen us as Afrolocked and QueenMeaniePants on Tumblr before it was shut down. Well, we are...
  20. M

    Female Dommes (seeking)

    Hello All, Im Mike. I’m a slave Male from Melbourne Victoria , Australia based around the city. With a little experience of female led relationships and being locked up by my owner. I’m looking for a female owner in and around the same area as me who would be interested in real time chastity...