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I think you should just go with it, and without expectations of more. If she enjoys having that power and you like the way it feels, run with it. If something more develops, that's a bonus.
 
Keep going. I think you have something here. Go slow but steady. It seems that what you two have right now is rather exciting to Her.

Good luck and keep us posted!


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And BTW does she know about this site so she can lurk here? She can do this without even joining. As I did for a while.
She doesn't know about this site, she doesn't speak English so I don't think it'll be helpful to tell her. I did send her some chastity sites in Spanish. If someone knows anything similar to chastity mansion but for Spanish speakers I'm more than greatful to know.
 
She doesn't know about this site, she doesn't speak English so I don't think it'll be helpful to tell her. I did send her some chastity sites in Spanish. If someone knows anything similar to chastity mansion but for Spanish speakers I'm more than greatful to know.
I mean there's this: https://matrimonio-feliz.neocities.org/ but it might sound like you want to marry her lol
 
Well, the article is for couples, we are friends so I don't think it would be a good idea to send it to her. The teasing part was great, maybe I'll screenshot it a five a shot. So many exciting and hot ideas. If you have some ideas your welcome to tell me and I'll tell her.
 
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Well, I couldn't hold and I sent her the article haha I told her that a lot of the ideas are for couples but we can adapt it. She loved the "teasing part" and the "physical break-in period" I'm a little worried about it because 3 months are too long. She read the testimonials and sent me some of them, the ones that she liked or took her attention. She told me that she's willing to tease me in some form, she knows I have a foot fetish too, so It is going to be in that way.
 
She loved the "teasing part" and the "physical break-in period" I'm a little worried about it because 3 months are too long.
Yes, she might take this part seriously. Although a wife or girlfriend might be reluctant to miss out on sex for 3 months, this wouldn't apply to her. There is no downside for her.

It's a good sign that she wants you to get aroused by photos of her. It suggests that she might see the potential of you both becoming more than friends one day. A shared kink can create a strong attraction between a potential couple.
 
Answering some questions:
When we talked about kink, she told me she likes rough sex but her being the dominant partner, breath play and teasing. She likes dressing in leather too. When I said my foot fetish she was excited and curious about it because she'd never have "been" with a guy with that fetish, even they was the opposite, they didn't like feet at all.
The code is only for emergencies, that's what it is.

She's going to buy this and maybe send me a photo wearing it.
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What do you think about telling her that every X times she cums I get to ask for the key. I'm thinking maybe that's a way to link her pleasure with mine, I know at this point I can't do anything to make her cum but it can be an aproach to her.
 
Great pic. Especially if she covers the vital bits.

I don't think your suggestion good though,

I'd just wait and see what she does and says when she returns.

Maybe ask how she is getting on with her bf and is she going to lock him as well?

If she likes rough sex with her being Dominant is she also into cbt?
How is her bf his business? Also what is this obsession with all men must be locked? Screams male fantasy.
 
Answering some questions:
When we talked about kink, she told me she likes rough sex but her being the dominant partner, breath play and teasing. She likes dressing in leather too. When I said my foot fetish she was excited and curious about it because she'd never have "been" with a guy with that fetish, even they was the opposite, they didn't like feet at all.
This is progress. The chances are that she doesn't strongly share a common kink with the the guy she's dating. Now that you've sent her https://matrimonio-feliz.neocities.org/, maybe ask her whether she intends to use the suggestions on that site with him. This might prompt her to reveal that he doesn't appreciate her dominance kink in which case you could have a stronger chance with her than he does.

What do you think about telling her that every X times she cums I get to ask for the key. I'm thinking maybe that's a way to link her pleasure with mine, I know at this point I can't do anything to make her cum but it can be an aproach to her.
No, you are having arousing thoughts about creating this direct sexual link because you are locked and she is your keyholder. Although it is natural for your sexual attention to turn towards your keyholder, everything else you've said suggests that it is too early to suggest this sexual link. Take it more slowly and remember one of the golden rules about chastity - your keyholder's intersts come before yours.
 
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