Friend keyholder

Ace. interesting she is dating, so likely she'll want to lock him too.


Re key, I'd say best she keep it for now as in real emergercy she can send code to lockbox.
And very likely she intends to leave you to simmer till at least after Easter. And then maybe start making conditions with which you have to comply first. Perhaps related to other kinks she has.

And why shouldn't she?

Point is: it's all about power. She has it, so what's the point for her if she doesn't use it to her maximum advantage. And makes you do as you are told. I'd say she is natural Dominant and you are a natural submissive so you should be a good D/s partnership as she'll have you just where it matters and you will both know it.

So go with the flow!
 
Update 3:
She said that she's gonna take the key to her girls trip, and if I'm REALLY wanting to masturbate I have to pay that Uberbike ($100 aprox.). Now I'm thinking that she is gonna tell them about the key and I don't know... I kind of like the idea. Seems like it'll be a tough week.
Ah! So idea is that if you want the key it will cost you,

And she telling her friends will give things another dimension, especially if they decide they want to take a look and even take pix to show on their phone.

Next thinf could be to add a numbered siree seal which has to be cut off before any unlock, abd then her F friends can check it's the same number each time they look.
 
Update 3:
She said that she's gonna take the key to her girls trip, and if I'm REALLY wanting to masturbate I have to pay that Uberbike ($100 aprox.). Now I'm thinking that she is gonna tell them about the key and I don't know... I kind of like the idea. Seems like it'll be a tough week.
Seems dangerously close to getting out of control, unless your happy for her to tell people
 
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Ah! So idea is that if you want the key it will cost you,

And she telling her friends will give things another dimension, especially if they decide they want to take a look and even take pix to show on their phone.

Next thinf could be to add a numbered siree seal which has to be cut off before any unlock, abd then her F friends can check it's the same number each time they look.
And it could also be that it will set a trend if her GFs decide they want to lovk their bfs as well... LOL!
 
Update 4:
Today she joked about "leaving the key in the kitchen and her mom finding it, or lossing the key" don't know if it's true or not, but it was very mean by her (I liked it haha). She hasn't decided yet if she's gonna take the key to the trip. I guess I'll have to wait to wednesday to find out.
 
Holding a spare to start is good idea. Let's not start with what's real and what's not. If you're caged it's real.
I think that you need an emergency key with you 24/7. Dangerous...
The emegency/spare key could be kept in a box or holder secured by a numbered security tag, so that you can access it without her help, but you couldn’t do it without her knowing.
 
A month ago I was talking to a friend and the conversation became more sexual till we started to share our kinks. To sum up I told her about chastity, that I have 2 cages and that I cage my self. I saw her very into it, she asked me for some resourses to read. These days she continuously ask me about it, if I am locked, sometimes even jokes about it. I have a lockbox with the emergency key always in my car, and she knows the code, the other key I have it in my house. Yesterday I told her that I had 2 weeks without cumming and that I am having trouble not to unlock and she offered to have the other key. She told me that if there is an emergency she'll give me the code or send me the key. What should I do? We do not have anything affectionate, or sexual besides this dinamic. I do se her atractive, don't know if she feels the same. Should I just go with it and enjoy the time, or should I try something?
My lady and keyholder was once only my best friend, We discussed everything and she was aware I was self-locking nd I mentioned that having access to your keys even though I had mine stuck with tape to the underside of the second shelf in a public library an hours drive away, the second key was similarly placed in another library a bit further away. was not the same having someone else hold them and dictate their use. The following day she invited me to ask her to be my KH .. I asked ,, and she accepted,
Over time she became my Mistress too and subsequently my partner and then the F in our FLR.

I'm not saying you should or should not accept your friends offer but I did and 8 years later we are still together as a couple in a LDR which is also a FLR
 
I think you should just go with it, and without expectations of more. If she enjoys having that power and you like the way it feels, run with it. If something more develops, that's a bonus.
 
Basically I told her that she was mean for not giving me the key, and She said she can be meaner, and that I have to put up with that.
That's surely the whole idea.
Next no doubt she will start making conditions with which you have to comply, or else.
She really very much likes the power she has, and why not?
I'd say this is only just the beginning.
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