new chastity

Hello everyone! New to the site and to being locked 🔐. Me and my girlfriend of 4years wanted to spice things up. She is my key holder and after many months of communication and being open with one another we have grown to love the dynamic. While the longest I’ve been in chastity has been one...

I met The Young Man (28) on a dating app 2 weeks and 5 days ago and here I am blogging in a journal on a male chastity site. Not where I thought I'd be at 36 years old. Within the first 24 hours of messaging he mentioned wanting a hotwife and being into male chastity. And how much he wanted me...

I recently upgraded from my fake V4 Holy Trainer to an authentic V5 Holy Trainer and am having difficulties so was hoping to get some advice. I apologise for the lengthy explanation and appreciate any insight and opinions you have to offer. My fake v4 fit like a glove. It was a size small with...

I'm somewhat of a silent reader here from time to time over a few years now and just created this account for this thread. I think I already know the answers to my problems but I would like to get a few opinions and maybe some advices for a new device from the experts here. I will try my best to...

Currently a captive ape. I started being locked full time approximately 48 hours ago after starting a trial period in Jan. Wife is my current KH, and is somewhat new to this. Here is my full starter story if you're interested in a longer read. I originally posted this on FetLife...

In 2017 my boyfriend(now husband) came to me with a plastic cage. No warning. Just all out there. He told me of his fantasies as me as his mistress and punishing him. Locking him up for days and even months. He explained to me the science behind the hormones and what it does not being able to...

Day 11 of chastity is coming to a close. I’m in bed next to my wife / KH @Gloria88 Normally I would still be out watching tv. But tonight, after having a great 1-2 hour long conversation for the third night in a row where we’re really connecting like we haven’t in a while, I came to bed with...

Hi everyone. I’m a 43 yr old married submissive and I’m newly caged by my wife and KH, @Gloria88. It’s now day 10 of chastity. This is the first time we’ve ever tried this. Years ago we talked about getting a cage but it was mostly roleplay talk and not serious. Then recently, I brought it up...

Going into day 5 of being in chastity so still very much in the early phases I've managed 2 over night lock ins and building up. I'm away from my key holder this weekend so no chance of being unlocked all weekend! A key reason for me being keen to try was to avoid watching porn but had the urge...

Hi all. I'm new here. Looking forward to learning from you all. --Dips

I joined this site a couple days ago looking for something, I did not really know what I was looking for but I was looking for something. Then I saw Lucy's post about her free keyholding and it hit me, I want my clit locked by someone. It was a struggle finding that person, but then I finally...

I'm interested in getting a smaller cage than what I currently have, and have been looking into cages with a urethral insert. I have no experience in sounding. It is my understanding that long term wear increases the risk for an infection, so I would only wear the cage for a period of 2-6hrs and...

I've just done the first version of a set of principles for My Pete and I to talk about. I'm hoping it may be the beginning of a journey and I know he is excited but also has some worries, which I've tried to allay. I've posted the principles here and would be very grateful for any suggestions...

Hello everyone, new member and new to chastity here. I've started training myself to wear a chastity cage after many years of desiring it. It has been about two weeks now of trying to wear my cage every day. The metal is heavy and difficult to get used to - experiencing some pinching and...

Hello everyone! I recently became seriously interested in chastity because of the negative effect masturbation was having on my vanilla marriage. You can read about this in more detail in my first post here...

Hello! My girlfriend and I are very new to male chastity and mostly just in the experimentation phase. We're looking to buy a Jailbird from Mature Metal and are going through the plastic sizing rings. I've gotten to a ring that just barely fits over my balls, and it's very comfortable... when...

Hello everyone! As the title says I'm new here and to chasity in general. A little about myself I'm currently 36yo and have lived a fairly vanilla life and sex life. I used to experiment a lot in my teens(unsupervised teen with unlimited access to the internet). That's where i first stumbled...

.. and so far so good. I tested the device I purchased from lockthecock a few times before any extended wear. It took some sanding to get it down. I plan on Journaling this adventure so I won't put anything here regarding motivations and goals. It's now been 48 hrs. My previous record is 24...

I saw a cage on Amazon and was some kind of attracted to it. So i doesn't think to much about it and ordered it. Some Chinese cheap one. I guess my motivation was kind of to stop my masturbation. Some times i masturbate 2 times a day and led to a point where i'm not really interested in Sex...

There are several articles, posts, insights on finding the correct device, this is my take from my experience trying to find the correct cage. Several of the things I have read always redirect back to expensive devices and are from people with great insight and experience but that comes from a...