Any advice for me? Any suggestions for what i can do? We are new to this but he has a lot of fantasies and it seems expectations regarding what I am to do and how I should be acting when being dominant from watching porn and live cams for years and years. It seems this is a common thing from what I've read on here so far for the men to have this idea. How do I get him to actually submit and put my needs before his own? I've punished him but they still don't seem to work and he still hasn't really changed much because I'm not doing it properly or something. Just looking for ideas or suggestions.