I am a trained submissive who's been taught to obey every command but recently have been asked by my Dom to be a little bratty to add some fun to the relationship and idk how to be
Be playfully uppity manner for purposeful fun of provoking and seeing dom to get going. Like do something quite forbidden in spirit but not technically so and then play all smirking pretend innocent "whyy, how that was wrong?!" knowing all well that you're gonna get it bad but has to work out why. Get creative playing with crossing the lines just to get the dom riled up to show who is the boss. Depends on dynamics, but had fun once when eating icecream on bed together, going under duvet and gently kiss-spitting load of chocolate ice cream on the stomach, coming up under the duvet all smiling and cuddly while waiting to see when the dom figures out what happened. There indeed was a surprised experession, intense punishment, fierce fucking and duvets to wash. you get the drift.
Lol. My wife always says I am too bratty. We were out two days ago on a kink event and she sometimes was a bit unhaooy with my questioning or commenting of her commands. She told me that i am bratty, so I said okay so I will get a tattoo with Brat on my left arm. It was quite funny.
Do you have an inside voice that expresses things that you wouldn’t dare say to your dominant? Would your dominant consider any of those things funny even if they got you in trouble? Those. Do those things. Be Roger Rabbit. “B-b-but Eddie, I can only do things if they’re FUNNY!”
If you mean me, my Lady. Yes I do have uncontrollable inner voices. Most of the time they do funny stuff. Situation comedy. Or zynism. It is a blessing and a curse. I try to get better with this. To controll it. But the voices are so fast. I mostly obly can touch their tails. My lady gets more self confident about to react properly to those explosions. Mostly they are sympathic and not cheeky. So she takes it as part of my character. I dont know Roger Rabbit.
Ah okay. Now I understand your post with roger rabbit better. The thing with the inner voice sounded so similar. Lol.
I mean I do but sometimes there's the other one that says no you have to obey unless you want to get punished, I do enjoy getting punished but at the same time I dont want to disobey a command being trained to obey an not be bratty is hard to break
But you just told us that you were given a request by your Dom to … Has your current Dom ever ordered you to not be bratty? If your Dom had ordered you to be bratty rather than asked you, would that help? You can obey and still be spicy about it. Maybe keep the brattiness for private moments to start so you don’t have to worry about embarrassing your Dom in public immediately. Feel it out.