I was locked for a while in my last relationship, but my partner wasn't very enthusiastic about it. Move forward a year and a half, the girl I am seeing now is much more mature and experienced with BDSM relationships. We have talking about a Dom/sub relationship and she finally agreed to lock me up. We negotiated a contract and now I'm locked 24/7. We have two keys, she has one and she hid the other one in my room since we don't live together. Really excited for this. My contract syas no touching or pornography. In my past I've experimented with crossdressing or pornography and waiting for a few days to be back in that phase. She also bought a pair of panties for me to wear when I feel really submissive and slutty. Would keep you guys posted about what happens.
Congratulations on your new Lock Up. It’s nice when fantasy and reality become one and you find that special so,done to experience it with. I hope everything works out for you and you don’t get released for a long time And by the way your Avatar matches your name very well.
Thanks guys! It's my first night sleeping locked. I get hard and it almost gets painful but then it relieves. Can't wait to be a few days in.
Do an update, it became really painful so I had to remove it middle of the night. Now would shower and wear it the whole day. Fingers crossed for tomorrow night
The longer you wear it the less discomfort you’ll feel during the nights. Your body adapts to being Locked. Really painfull and uncomfortable pain are two different things, getting the correct cage for long term wearing is very important. A couple mm doesn’t seem like much but can make the world of difference. Good Luck and keep sharing your experiences.
Thanks, would try to do that. I had a lot of pain around the balls/ring area. Would try to put some cream/Vaseline around it before I go to bed today and see how it goes. Also, 24 hours of not comming, my thoughts are really getting wild here
24 hours is just the start when it’s 24 days or longer you’ll get more comfortable with it. That’s one of the difference with playing with Chastity and Chastity being part of your life.
Yeah, looking forward to that. Also since I'm forbidden looking at pornography I just don't know what to do when I get really aroused
Being around that 24 day mark is really amazing for me. There certainly are ups and downs but the acceptance is totally there. The other night was the first time I slept straight through the night with no interruptions. Granted I had the most painfully pleasurable restricted erection of my life and practically had to crawl into the bathroom
I'm allowed to look at porn, in moderation. She enjoys watching me squirm when trying to get hard, and she didn't have to do any of the work. She saves that for later with her tease and denial.
At night, when it gets painfull, just get up and walk a few minutes, it will go and you will be able to sleep again!
Middle of the day update - Been wearing it all day at work, and it has been going pretty smooth. I do have to readjust it a bit sometime and peeing sitting down is getting some used to, but other than that it is comfortable. Going out with friends later today, looking forward to that.
Hi all, just joined today. Unsure what to say really. I have tried chastity with my ex wife. We brought the plastic model i think it was a cb 600. Wore it around the house and to serve her but she was never into the femdom life style and it got put away . I long to be owned and put into chastity but unfortunately cannot see it happening.
So how did it go- I’m doing the same tonight Son has hockey game and we all do a little tailgating beforehand
Welcome to CM. Feel free to say what’s on your mind.(Aside from politics and religion lol) Read through the threads and join in where you feel comfortable. I’m self locked hoping to bring my wife into the lifestyle. Hopeful that someday she will be my KH. Do you ever self lock
Welcome.You sound very excited about this. Just be careful that the pain is not caused by the device being the wrong size. It can take a while to get used to it. There is discomfort and there is pain. Take your time and make sure you have a good fit. If you had to go a hundred days, could you? Just be careful. Great to meet you.