I have been tasked with thinking of a few punishment ideas as I pleasured myself a little whilst unlocked for cleaning. A requirement is at least some of these ideas need to work for me to do asap which is whilst we are apart from each other as by the time we are together again it won't be fresh in the memory. That got me realising that I really could not think of many punishments that don't directly involve my girlfriend being present, and I could find lots of ideas only but they pretty much all involved both parties being present. So I was wondering if any of you had any good ideas for punishments that work whilst separated from your keyholder or experiences to share with this? I plan to come up with my own ideas but was interested in others experiences with this (if any) and thought maybe I might get some inspiration.
I guess it depends how much you want/need the punishment to be at the same time some kind of masochistic pleasure. There are things you could easily do: wash your mouth out with soap. Or volunteer your time to charitable causes. Those would be punishments. But would they satisfy your needs?
Yes it is quite challenging to think of ideas because they need to be ones that she would think suitable as well. Struggling quite a lot with this to be honest. I never thought it was so much harder to think of punishments that don't involve her.
Be careful what you ask for. My wife bought an electric dog collar (petsafe) than has bluetooth capability and can be run from a phone. I also set it up with teamviewer which is a free app that allows a phone or pc to be controlled remotely. I work from home a few days a week and will occasionally get texts saying "45 minute session. Put the collar on." (It goes around just behind my cage not on my neck). She'll then zap me when she feels like it. I never know when it's coming or how high she sets the intensity. It's a bit of work to set this stuff up but she loves it and it drives me wild.
Thank you to everyone for the suggestions. She chose the writing task in the end. Only just seen the more recent posts, they're certainly pretty intense ideas!
I can confirm that the writing lines form of punishment is a very effective tool. It can be even used as a reward once the punishment is complete. I make my sub write lines for a misdemeanour and then set a specific time for it to be completed. If it is done in that time frame with photographic evidence then a rewards may follow. Feel free to ask @LatexMiss how she feels about this particular form of punishment and she would tell you it’s worse than spanking LP
I'm required to always have a little buttplug with me. Whenever she feels like it I get a message to put it in. Sometimes it stays for few minutes and sometimes few hours