Anyone who has seen my post knows we are about as vanilla as a couple could be. Ann has almost completed menopause; she has not completely lost her sex drive, but it has diminished a lot. Ann and I have been friends since we were 14 years old, and we have been married for about 10 years now.
Chastity started, like most, my idea, and no doubt she started this with me for me and not her. Like most wives, she thought it was a crazy thing to do, but she will admit now she likes having it. I love holding Ann, and she enjoys me touching her even when she isn't in the mood for anything else, and the cage keeps my erection from getting in the way of our soft intimacy.
I am thankful that Ann still enjoys PIV occasionally and not all against it. However, I can feel permanent becoming more and more. I am a little nervous about it becoming permanent because I really enjoy being inside her. She is the absolute love of my life. We are down to an average of 3 times a month, but who is counting, LOL......ME.
I don't think permanent is something she is intentionally setting up; I can feel it as my time in chastity keeps increasing a little at a time. If I had to guess, I would say in the next 12 months; She will likely have us with PIV about every month and a half. I hate mercy sex, so I prefer her to decide. She does sometimes allow me to come in my cage.
Time will tell, and I am going to allow Ann to decide. I will enjoy pleasing her in any way that I can. Ann has told me she enjoys the cage on me, and I can see her comfort now having a chaste husband.
We have been playing with our chastity stuff for almost 3 years, I think. Ann has gotten much more serious about it in the last 6 months, and what I mean is using it for what she needs and not just playing a game with me. Husbands, be careful about what you wish for. If a couple doesn't give up this life, being impatient with each other, it will become something she won't want to quit. Overall, I am glad we kept it going; we have had our moments when we just wanted to give up keeping me in chastity. However, I realize our old normal likely won't work anymore for us, so that is probably what keeps this life alive with us. I can see problems in a marriage increasing if we were to stop this life now after being thoroughly introduced to what it brings to our marriage. Chastity gives me an outlet to find a different kind of pleasure over PIV, and I don't want to be a burden to her, always wanting intercourse when her body doesn't want it. I don't want anyone but my Ann, no matter what.
One last thing: I would never cheat on Ann; I just love her too much. She knows I have a very strong sex drive; she says she knows I would never cheat on her. Personally, I like being caged while I am at work and away from her because, with my job, it would be very easy for me to be a pig and cheat. The cage gives her peace, whether she will admit that or not, and I like that. I don't ever want her even to wonder what if. I lived like that for a long time with my first wife, wondering what if she was cheating and it is a horrible way to make your spouse live. I'll never have that with Ann. I love and care about her being comfortable and confident in our marriage. I do believe there are unseen forces out there that love to tear marriages apart; I've lived it in my past.
I welcome any responses or similar situations you guys are living, you know, so I can feel normal, LOL.
John
Chastity started, like most, my idea, and no doubt she started this with me for me and not her. Like most wives, she thought it was a crazy thing to do, but she will admit now she likes having it. I love holding Ann, and she enjoys me touching her even when she isn't in the mood for anything else, and the cage keeps my erection from getting in the way of our soft intimacy.
I am thankful that Ann still enjoys PIV occasionally and not all against it. However, I can feel permanent becoming more and more. I am a little nervous about it becoming permanent because I really enjoy being inside her. She is the absolute love of my life. We are down to an average of 3 times a month, but who is counting, LOL......ME.
I don't think permanent is something she is intentionally setting up; I can feel it as my time in chastity keeps increasing a little at a time. If I had to guess, I would say in the next 12 months; She will likely have us with PIV about every month and a half. I hate mercy sex, so I prefer her to decide. She does sometimes allow me to come in my cage.
Time will tell, and I am going to allow Ann to decide. I will enjoy pleasing her in any way that I can. Ann has told me she enjoys the cage on me, and I can see her comfort now having a chaste husband.
We have been playing with our chastity stuff for almost 3 years, I think. Ann has gotten much more serious about it in the last 6 months, and what I mean is using it for what she needs and not just playing a game with me. Husbands, be careful about what you wish for. If a couple doesn't give up this life, being impatient with each other, it will become something she won't want to quit. Overall, I am glad we kept it going; we have had our moments when we just wanted to give up keeping me in chastity. However, I realize our old normal likely won't work anymore for us, so that is probably what keeps this life alive with us. I can see problems in a marriage increasing if we were to stop this life now after being thoroughly introduced to what it brings to our marriage. Chastity gives me an outlet to find a different kind of pleasure over PIV, and I don't want to be a burden to her, always wanting intercourse when her body doesn't want it. I don't want anyone but my Ann, no matter what.
One last thing: I would never cheat on Ann; I just love her too much. She knows I have a very strong sex drive; she says she knows I would never cheat on her. Personally, I like being caged while I am at work and away from her because, with my job, it would be very easy for me to be a pig and cheat. The cage gives her peace, whether she will admit that or not, and I like that. I don't ever want her even to wonder what if. I lived like that for a long time with my first wife, wondering what if she was cheating and it is a horrible way to make your spouse live. I'll never have that with Ann. I love and care about her being comfortable and confident in our marriage. I do believe there are unseen forces out there that love to tear marriages apart; I've lived it in my past.
I welcome any responses or similar situations you guys are living, you know, so I can feel normal, LOL.
John
