vanilla chastity

Hi people, I know lots of members around here use chastity devices. But i work the honour system in a quite vanilla relation. I used to masturbate a lot. My wife never was against it. In fact she supported it because she had the idea i wouldn't "bother" her with my needs if i did so. But i...

Hello all, Ive just been looking through loads of the old threads and wanted to say just how helpful they were. It's good to know that some of the problems I’m facing have also been problems for others. So, where I’m at at the moment. Ive enjoyed the thought of chastity for a few years and...

So , I want to be locked up .. bought a qiui cage for my keys. Bur the app always allows escspe if self locking i can just cancel the lock . I then Only ind that to be truly locked , I need a KH for a month on the qiui app. After which hardcore mode can be enabled and I'll be truly locked ...

Anyone who has seen my post knows we are about as vanilla as a couple could be. Ann has almost completed menopause; she has not completely lost her sex drive, but it has diminished a lot. Ann and I have been friends since we were 14 years old, and we have been married for about 10 years now...

So my wife and I had a break from my wearing a cage due to lots of life changes. Moved house a fews back now both over 60 and lots of distractions jobs on the property and pets! Since we stopped we became less intimate and admittedly that is in part down to my not wearing a cage but also dogs on...

My wife is rather vanilla but has accepted I enjoy chastity and has even held my keys. She currently has my keys locked in a safe and I'm hoping to do all of locktober. Should I explain what locktober is or just let her know it's my goal to stay locked for the whole month? We are sort of at...

Anyone have a Vanilla-sex wife, who while initially hesitant about locking up their husband's genitals in a steel cage, now happily locks them up for weeks or months at a time, and would they be willing to share how they changed their mind? What would they say to another woman hesitant to...

From the woman who was scared of chastity devices just a few weeks ago…Not 5 minutes into her first real look at chastity devices, "I don't like that one. It looks to easy to get out of." Moments later... "I don't know. Maybe we should consider getting you pierced." I'm sure if she's...

My wife and I have a chastity device for me. She has been up and down about using it on me for a couple years. Currently I am not locked but I am horny as heck looking at chastity and cuckolding captions. Such lifestyles are so antithetical to our values as parents and citizens. I just want...

My wife and I play chastity games with me being more into it than she is. She never initiates it and when we do play she's somewhat interested but is very quick to release me early and is always WAY too nice even when I let her know I like it when she's not as nice. I've tired all the standard...

I’m not really sure how to start this thread other than simply saying how much chastity has changed my life in the last few months. It all began when I came across the chastitytraining subreddit and someone had posted this article...

Today is our wedding anniversary and we are well into our third decade of bliss. I was told two weeks ago and reminded. again this morning that I will remain locked with no chance of release and that I will service her tonight if she is in the mood. I love this lifestyle! I am curious how all...

Past member from many years ago returning to see what’s up. I originally heard about the Mansion from Sarah J’s Male Chastity Blog. I am an older guy in a happy vanilla marriage but I’m a little bit of a kinkster and my wife is pretty open minded. We keep all our experimentation in our marriage...

I’ve always desired that super kinky type of chastity that you seen captions made for. That kind where the female is always in the mood and always wanting pleased and the male is denied until she sees fit. Although this does occur in some relationships it is a very impractical expectation for a...

Hello everyone! I'm so glad to join your community. I'm very new in the chastity world but I think I already love it! I bought my very first cage few weeks ago and I have to admit that I have been surprised by how exciting it was. I'm a French guy, in my late 20s, living in San Francisco. I...

The CB-6000s finally arrived this morning(after being delayed for several days). I have made preparations and even compiled an instruction booklet for my wife on how to act and what to do. We have spent several nights talking about the general benefits of me wearing a cage, not only the...

Let's face it. The unchaste man ( I was one myself 2 months ago) will touch himself subconsciously many times during a normal day. I would do it myself without a thought until today. It isn't always because a guy needs adjust himself or because of arousal. I believe, that sometimes we use it...

Brought a cage off the internet to just try it out and just about managed to convince my gf who’s very vanilla to try it out. We haven’t had sex for over 3 months anyway. In a week our relationships changed massively I’m doing way more things for her and she says she’s less stressed; it actually...

Hello all, Let me make some brief introduction about my progress and way to introduce chastity device to my wife that I really love.. We are a normal couple living more or less ordinary life, but after 10 years, I started to feel that we need something to put some fresh air in the...

I have always found writing to be very therapeutic as it gives me an outlet to express my views and ease my stress. As a Libertarian living in 2020 I am constantly under stress. As the title implies I have had a fascination with the Male Chastity lifestyle for several years. It has always been...