size

There is a lot of talk about “ going smaller” and making sure that length and girth should be fairly tight. I just tried a new cage that is slightly longer and wider than any of my BAWR or MM devices. It is the most comfortable I’ve ever had. The BAWR and Jailbirds we’re not uncomfortable… I’d...

Hi, kinda new here but not really new to the kink. I've been wanting to get more into it, but I've been struggling to get a good cage to wear. Most I get are either too loose, tight, are difficult to lock into place without pinching myself or just rub wrong after a certain period of time. For...

I have no experience with chastity devices. I read several articles and the HolyTrainer V5 is often recommended for beginners. Their website has a sizing chart but unfortunately it does not explain how to select the proper tube length...

I've just posted this to my journal but would be interested in reactions/advice so am cross-posting here - I hope that's ok. We had an interesting discussion about size this morning. Not My Pete's size, but the size of his cage and how it affects him. Since we frst experiemented with a 'toy'...

I first did chastity in 2016 with the CB6000. I’ve now got a new cage, some silicone pink one. It only has on base ring and the cage. ok, so I have a size that feels comfortable for long-term. The base feels fine… but my cock shrinks in the cage that it almost goes to the back. I can also pull...

After some feedback I decided to refine the survey and use google docs to collect survey results to report back. No email addresses or information is collected, other than survey answers (click the "learn more" on google survey for questions). I'd love for as many people as possible to fill this...

I accidentally said something hurtful to My Pete this evening. He's gone off upset and will probably be back in half an hour or so. I described what happened in my blog post. Basically I implied I found a dildo more dependable and satisfying than him. I know that's a theme on here, but it's not...

Hi All, I've decided to start my own journal to answer one question where it seems there is a lot of dispute: does the penis get smaller after being confined in small cages for long periods of time (with continuous wear and no breaks for rest, cleaning, whatever). I have looked both on this...

I recently purchased a Watchful Mistress from Mature Metal and followed the sizing instructions with the sizing rings. I measured the circumference behind the glands. When I put the cage on, the head of the penis bulges out and pulls the head back so the urethra doesn't line up with the bars...

https://www.houseofdenial.com/collections/male-chastity-devices/products/steel-hod-s80-with-urethral-tube Well this is my first serious steel cage and for a fsir price. I can recommend it! It fits snugg. I bought the 50, 45 and 38mm curved ring. I tried the 50mm but my right nuts slips through...

I hate the word 'dildo' but here goes... We've been experiementing with him using a dildo on me while he's locked. Some kind soul here previously advised that warming it in hot water really helps. I can confirm that! A couple of other things I've just learned. First, having him kiss me and say...

Hello CM! Question on the ring sizes. I am not well endowed by any stretch of imagination. However, the device I have (https://www.sub-shop.com/collections/all-chastity-devices/products/exposed-in-chastity-high-security-keyed-tumbler-locking-male-chastity-with-4-base-cock-ring-sizes) came with...

I am the owner of a carrara device and gained some weight since I bought the device. Does anyone know how to adjust it? Can it be sent back for adjustment?

Hi, thank you again for the thoughtful responses to my newbie keyholder questions. I want to ask something about devices and being locked. I've read quite a bit here about the advantages of a more snug device rather than a slightly more accommodating one. On a physical and comfort level, I...

Hi, so, I'm about to order my first properly fitted cage. I'm thinking about getting the cherry keeper. The only problem I have is the total length. Flaccid, I'm at about 10 cm/3,9 inch. But the long model of the cherry keeper is only 3 inch/7,4 cm in length. Now I read that the average...

At what frequency/rate do the ball sizes increase? I know it must be primarily based on genetics and other environmental/personal factors (i.e. – race, sex, gender, age, etc.) but maybe I’m not accounting for other specific elements. I certainly want to increase the size of my balls but only...

Hello, Ive procured as my first device a Cherry Keeper. The initial base ring I ordered was clearly too small so I got the sizing rings and reordered. I'm pretty sure the diameter I have now is about right, but I'm having trouble getting both testicles through the ring....I can put one or the...

Hi everyone! Newbie here. I have a sizing issue that I hope someone can help me out with. I think I might classify as having "high-and-tight" balls as well, if that helps out at all. I bought the Kink3D X-Lock Cobra S Chastity cage about one and a half months ago. The cage part fits me fine...

Hey everyone, So I've recently been looking into Tether Spouts once again however the first main reason that puts me off are the costs. The spout and retainer for around £15 with an additional £16 for postage which is eye watering. (Just for record, I understand trying to go cheap is never a...

So I have a knock off HT V4 (I didn’t want to commit to a proper one until I knew it was right for me). I’ve been wearing it with a 55mm ring and I can only do that for a little while before it starts to get quite uncomfortable. It’s hard to explain the specific sensation but I think it’s maybe...